We all worry for ourselves when we want to reach a certain level of proficiency in our education or career. It does not matter we may reach the goals or not, but we lose the essence of our goals while striving to reach the goals. If we lose the essence, sense and understanding of what for we started, there is no point of struggles, at all.
Our struggles of the attainment of our objectives get marred by worries of future, perfectionism paralysis, the desperateness of controlling it all and the need to control all that goes in our daily life. We cannot achieve our goals in a routine in which we are absent. Our focus, state of mind and understanding of goals cannot remain clear in this fussy routine.
Relaxing Yourself with Logic
We really all have no idea what may happen in the next moment, and we really cannot “control” the next moment. With this logic, you must stop worrying about the imminent future. Imminent future can be changed with concentrated efforts.
All you have in your control are “attempts”, “struggle”, “experiment”, “love”, “fun” and “enjoyment”. You cannot just to wait to reach the moment that will give you the success, but you will have to create and craft the moment with your hard work, determination and devotion.
Remember, Life is Not a Race.You must never forget that there are relations around you that need your love, care, warmth and attention. You cannot jump from one goal to another, avoiding everyone around you. It is not a race of attaining different goals; rather it is about living the goals and realizing their success with the loved ones.
Attaining Goals of Life with Mindfulness Meditation
Mindfulness meditation is an exercise of the mind that helps you to “live in the moment”, “think in the moment” and “speak in the moment.” Slowly, you start taking control of your existence. Bit by bit, you progress towards the better understanding about your body, mind and soul. This helps you in remaining calm, focused and attentive to every little detail about the events taking place in your life.
Meditate that Fears, failures and Losses are Part of Life
Fears, failures and losses of different things in life are unavoidable. You cannot predict an occurrence, and prevent falling into trap of any of these. So, when you attempt to live fully into the present, you should not have fears living inside you. Failure will happen, but you will tackle it. You will lose friendships, relationships and jobs, but it is fine.
You Learn to Dance in Life At Last
Thus, staying focused, good mental health and positive attitude will not be taken from you in any depressing moment. You will meditate to expand your knowledge about risks, negative events and failures that may happen. Once, you vow to accept them and tackle them, you learn to dance in the life. Experimentation, Response, Refinement, Reflection and Repeat is what you do to gain the highest levels of success in life.